façades

facade/façade is a loanword from French with two possible meanings.
First, it is the face or front of a building.
Secondly, a deceptive outward appearance


i was just thinking of many things.
and i came to realise that some people have a façade (the 2nd meaning obviously) .. even my close friends are like that .. and i don't wish to point out any here .. don't even bother asking me who cuz i won't say .. for now .. i wish that dx was still working so i can keep my entries under lock and pour out all i want to say without anyone reading ..

anyway i wonder if anyone thinks abt other people's feelings before doing anything .. (eg. backstabbing//lying -- what if the person finds out? the trust would be gone right ?) .. even when talking .. some stuff might juz come out due to a slip of the tongue .. and as most people say .. the tongue is the no. 1 weapon .. cuz for all u know .. u might have hurt the person badly and end up losing a friend just like that.

i know many who are reading might ask why am i blogging such stuff ?? .. u all can think that i'm -- (fill in descriptive word) .. but seriously .. why can't everyone be their real self ?? .. it's hard seeing thru façades which might cause more misunderstandings ..

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what so nice abt them ? .. can someone enlighten me ?? ..




i don't really feel like blogging now .. will be back tmr.